Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory (Paperback)
"This book completely changed the way that I think about death and dying. Which in turn has changed some things about the way that I live. That sounds dramatic, and it is, but I'm serious! So many people are afraid of death and treat it like it is contagious. But death and grief are apart of every single person's life, and are also an opportunity to lean into the good parts of humanity while we experience some of the worst. Plus she got started at the Oakland Crematorium, so she's basically local!"- Grace— From Grace's Staff Picks
"Morbid and illuminating" (Entertainment Weekly)—a young mortician goes behind the scenes of her curious profession.
Armed with a degree in medieval history and a flair for the macabre, Caitlin Doughty took a job at a crematory and turned morbid curiosity into her life’s work. She cared for bodies of every color, shape, and affliction, and became an intrepid explorer in the world of the dead. In this best-selling memoir, brimming with gallows humor and vivid characters, she marvels at the gruesome history of undertaking and relates her unique coming-of-age story with bold curiosity and mordant wit. By turns hilarious, dark, and uplifting, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes reveals how the fear of dying warps our society and "will make you reconsider how our culture treats the dead" (San Francisco Chronicle).
About the Author
Caitlin Doughty is a mortician and the New York Times best-selling author of Smoke Gets in Your Eyes, From Here to Eternity, and Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? She is the creator of the web series Ask a Mortician, and the founder of The Order of the Good Death. She lives in Los Angeles, California, where she owns a funeral home.
— O, The Oprah Magazine
Frank…philosophical…engaging, and even wicked.
— Natalie Kusz - New York Times Book Review
Upbeat, brave and brilliantly, morbidly curious…Her measure of society is fierce, right on, and radical…[A]n important and timely book.
— Helen Davies - Sunday Times
It may well blow your mind wide open.
— Elisabeth Donnelly - Flavorwire
Think Sloane Crosley meets Six Feet Under.
— Kevin Nguyen - Grantland
In a moving—and often funny—memoir about working in a crematorium and other parts of the ‘death industry,’ Caitlin Doughty argues for radical change in how we face the details of death.
— Jessica Ferri - Daily Beast
Demonically funny dispatches.
— O Magazine
Doughty…a trustworthy tour guide…keeps us laughing most of the way.
— Rachel Lubitz - Washington Post
Alternately heartbreaking and hilarious, fascinating and freaky, vivid and morbid, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes is witty, sharply drawn, and deeply moving. Like a poisonous cocktail, Caitlin Doughty’s memoir intoxicates and enchants even as it encourages you to embrace oblivion; she breathes life into death.
— Dodai Stewart, deputy editor of Jezebel.com
Caitlin Doughty takes you to places you didn’t know you wanted to go. Fascinating, funny, and so very necessary, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes reveals exactly what’s wrong with modern death denial.
— Bess Lovejoy, author of Rest in Pieces: The Curious Fates of Famous Corpses
This book absolutely must be read, if only to remind all of us that exercise, organic food, and plastic surgery only work up to a point. Doughty is my kind of death crusader—compassionate, unblinking, and very, very funny.
— Meg Rosoff